Your attitude to a diet
Meals for people with diabetes need not be different from those of the family
Although a diet does involve restrictions on foods and careful measurement, it is important to remember that the meal itself may not really be very different from the ordinary meals the rest of the family are having anyway. It should be just as attractive and your child should enjoy his meals just as much as ever.
Once you are confident about the details and you are used to the measurements, eating out with friends or relatives, or at restaurants, will be no problem.
It is hoped that meal times will not be a battle to get the right foods in (though this can be a problem with any family, with or without diabetes). If he does not like a certain food it may be wiser not to insist that every mouthful is eaten, but rather to substitute something else for any uneaten food. You can consult your food lists to do this.
Your child’s attitude to a diet
Some children take happily to a diet, accepting the restrictions when they are explained, and co-operating with their parents in the regulation of their meals.
Other children resent having these restrictions and badly miss the sweet foods or concentrated carbohydrate foods they are used to having.
All children are occasionally tempted to try something that is forbidden from their diet. Often they will feel guilty about it afterwards, particularly if they understand the need for the restrictions, or sense their parents’ disapproval.
It is not easy to be on a diet
It will be helpful to parents to consider how their child feels about these restrictions. He may feel the diet is a punishment, or he may feel singled out if all the rest of the family can eat differently. In any event, it is a pity to take a moral attitude yourself towards the diet. Some discipline is clearly necessary with the diet, but this will be most successful if tempered with an understanding of the temptations that may confront anyone on a diet.
If adults find it hard to be on a diet, it is not surprising that children do too, particularly if it is the favourite foods that are restricted or excluded.
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